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"Our job in these wild times is not to cling to what’s falling away. Our task is not to be the people putting up “Wrong Way Go Back” signs. Our best is not behind us. All that’s back there is illusion." It is true...we have been living in an illusion... But we didn't have to rip it down this way (innocent people and children are being harmed in an unimaginably cruel way)... The dream of equality, fairness, freedom, truth and justice was a good dream....but so many were left out of that promise and in its name, so much wrong was done. and that it has been ripped down this way exposes the real cruelty we have been complicit with and contributed to.

There was a time in my life in which I fell in love...with someone who seemed to be everything I hoped for....he cared for the poor....he was eloquent and gentle and intelligent....he was beautiful.....But that is only the face he showed me and it was a false face. He lied to me again and again and he was very good at it. Underneath, he was cruel, cold, calculating and entitled. He did not love the poor...he wanted them and all who worked for him to worship him and bring him gifts and tell him he was a god. He wanted me because it fed his ego to have my utter and full devotion even though he actually never intended for me to be more than temporary eye candy on his arm. He used me and my devotion was wasted on someone who never deserved a second glance from me because i wanted to believe the lie. I ignored the signs that something was terribly wrong. Part of that was arrogance...part, denial....part a devotion to a "dream" that someone could exist who was all the things i valued......but it wasn't real.....He was NOT that dream. It was devastating when the fault lines finally cracked open and I realized I had devoted 10 years to something that was not real. That is why I can hug us all in this time.....it is very similar. Please do not hate yourselves for believing in a dream...the dream of equality, fairness, justice, freedom, and truth is a good one......and now we must decide to infuse all those things with love...real love and truth must be really true......and move together within this mess and let that love grow......never again allowing ourselves to look away when things do not feel right...not just for ourselves and individual families...but for others...for all of us.

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Finally! This! “What we have been protecting all this time has never been a functioning democracy, but a fragile myth dressed up in flags and slogans; a story that our nation’s ideals are equality, freedom, fairness, truth and justice that’s never actually been true.”

Thank you so much Wiz! I couldn’t agree more! I sure am ready for the new visionaries! Starting here works! 🙏

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